It’s the way you smile at me when I ask you to dance. You must like me. Or the way I Kizomba. It’s definitely the way you Kizomba. Nevertheless, dancing with you is a cause of euphoria. It’s the way you fall in my arms, you are a pleasure to hold so close and it…
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Insecurity; Strangling Expression.
I can see the anger in his focused eyes. My right hand on his girlfriend’s back, just below her shoulder. I slide my hand down to her waist, he grimaces. Next thing he pulls her away from me. I smile. I see you. Insecure man-child. When we resume doing the Rueda de Casino, I pull…
This Is How It Goes
There's this flagrant thinking when it comes to the dance community, that men are dogs and women are loose, and that it's a free for all when it comes to hooking up. I don't know why it is so: Is it because they see her grinding against a man and then doing it minutes later…
Leave Her With A Smile
There’s a joy I get listening to Kizomba and Cuban Salsa, theres a joy in dancing to the tunes and a joy in watching certain people dance, and I especially like the smile of a appreciation when a lady leaves her partner. There are a few gents that always make their ladies smile, it’s as…
You Are Not Channing
Some guys are overly confident, as soon as a new lady enters the dance arena they make it known that they are interested. Now check this, there are new ladies every week and you making moves every week, every week? Bitch please. With Kizomba you learn that one of the fundamentals of this sensual dance is…
Netta The White Salsa Chick
It’s not often that I meet a naturally talented dancer, you know someone that just makes dancing effortless and fun, lots of fun. I met Netta recently at a dance class and she took on the Bachata, Cuban Salsa and Kizomba steps like a sponge absorbing water. This woman not only succeeded in copying the…
Let’s Be Real To Our Women
There are many good reasons why a man would abuse a woman, whether it’s emotional, physical or psychological, he always has a good reason to let her know who the boss is. “I backhanded that bitch,” a former friend once said about how he disciplined his wife for smiling with another guy one time too…
Understanding The Music
Most Kizomba songs are sung in Portuguese and like most RNB tracks they are about love, relationships, partying, break-ups and getting down. Although I don’t understand the language, the rhythm and bass move me. I’ve found that understanding the lyrics at least has added value to my life. I’ve had to use Google Translate to…
Ladies, Ask A Man.
It’s the norm that ladies outnumber men at dance classes and parties. I’m not sure what the ratio is but as a lead for Kizomba, and sometimes Bachata and Cuban Salsa, I hardly get a chance to sit down. But the ladies, sitting on the couch against the wall, standing, watching waiting. I…
What you see is what you don’t get
Most men think that a woman that can move her body in a sexy way, or that dresses in a sexy way, or that is friendly, wants to be asked out. Sit Down Boy.
Lose yourself to dance 